My friend Sergey is one of the most mindful people I know. He meditates for 20 minutes every morning. Reads two books a month. Keeps a journal. Sees a therapist. Runs half marathons. And every evening he opens Tinder and swipes for an hour and a half, gradually hating himself more and more. Sound familiar? … Читать далее
I’ve noticed a strange pattern. When I ask acquaintances why they’re single, they almost always cite external reasons: no time, work drains all their energy, I meet the wrong people, all the good ones are taken, it’s hard to find a decent person in our city. But when I phrase the question differently—are you sure … Читать далее
I’ve noticed a strange pattern. When I ask acquaintances why they’re single, they almost always cite external reasons: no time, work drains all their energy, I meet the wrong people, all the good ones are taken, it’s hard to find a decent person in this city. But when I rephrase the question—are you sure you’re … Читать далее
I’ve noticed a strange pattern. When I ask acquaintances why they’re single, they almost always cite external reasons: no time, work drains all their energy, I meet the wrong people, all the good ones are taken, it’s hard to find a decent person in our city. But when I rephrase the question—are you sure you’re … Читать далее
I’ve noticed a strange pattern. When I ask acquaintances why they’re single, they almost always cite external reasons: no time, work takes all their energy, I meet the wrong people, all the good ones are taken, it’s hard to find a decent person in our city. But when I rephrase the question—are you sure you’re … Читать далее
I’ve noticed a strange pattern. When I ask acquaintances why they’re single, they almost always cite external reasons: no time, work takes all their energy, I meet the wrong people, all the good ones are taken, it’s hard to find a decent person in this city. But when I rephrase the question—are you sure you’re … Читать далее
In 2018, an engineer from San Francisco named Jake wrote an algorithm that changed his life. Not for a startup, not for money. He was just tired of Tinder. Hundreds of matches, dozens of dates, not a single one he wanted to see again. Jake sat down and wrote a program that analyzed his own … Читать далее
I have a theory: 90 percent of success in online dating comes down to getting three simple things right. Everything else is noise that distracts from what matters. I analyzed data from several services, talked to psychologists and startup founders, and compiled the results into one practical guide. No fluff—only proven data. Step One: 15 … Читать далее
In 2018, an engineer from San Francisco named Jake wrote an algorithm that changed his life. Not for a startup, not for money. He was just tired of Tinder. Hundreds of matches, dozens of dates, not one he wanted to see again. Jake sat down and wrote a program that analyzed his own visual preferences. … Читать далее
I spoke with psychotherapist Anna Kovalyova. She has worked with couples for 25 years. I asked her: what is the most common request from clients? She smiled and replied: bring me that special person, doctor. And quickly. We both laughed. Then she said seriously: the problem is not that people can’t find a suitable partner. … Читать далее